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december 7th; 2025

yesterday night was so fun but gabrielle sent me home early. she said i was too drunk but this was a divided topic. marzia, gabrielle, anthony, and krissy, all thought i was too drunk and should go home. me, benny, and sam thought i was fine. it was really fun, jay and his friend gus were there too. i met gus and krissy for the first time yesterday although i already knew of krissy from legend. i was too nervous to say too much to benny yesterday but marzia convinced me to just straight up call him attractive on my last class with him and then gaslight him as if i didn’t say anything right after and i think i can do that. i don’t know though because i thought i could do something more yesterday and i didn’t. thinking about it now i think it was because the environment and energy was different from what i thought it would be. also benny knows a lot of people so he was talking to people all the time, he didn’t make me feel like he wasn’t giving me enough attention though somehow, he’s good at that. gabrielle and marzia were attached to my hip all night anyway. i love them but they’re being weird lately. gabrielle is lowkey trying to convert me to christianity? and marzia reposted weird anti-islamic shit on her story? idk what to do because trust me i tried to dm her about it and we talked for so long but i got nowhere with her. it’s so weird bc usually i feel like i can tell when someone is weird but maybe that’s just my privilege in this context bc i’m not muslim. things i need to bring up to benny tuesday and wednesday:

  1. tues: outfit breakdown from saturday because either he wasn’t following theme or he was dressed as a specific character i don’t recognize
  2. tues: does he like the new ice spice song. lowkey does he even like ice spice anymore i haven’t heard him mention her in so long.
  3. wed: call him attractive to his face. no pressure.
bonus monday mission: ask jay for gus’s instagram and possibly ask if he’s single. i think he’s cute but i’m not sure because how am i supposed to be sure if i don’t have images of him on my phone screen to look at. i need both because i don’t really find people attractive on dating apps. both the images on my phone and the irl experience of seeing and talking to you. i wouldn’t need the images if i had class with him but i don’t, he’s an illustration major. he said that he remembered me from art history first semester which is incredibly crazy and behavior that indicates that i’m the nonchalant one here which is pretty rare. it would be really really really funny if none of this works out. i’ve been thinking about boys and drinking alcohol and doing laundry i have not done any work at all for school. i finished my thesis and that’s the only thing that carries into next semester literally nothing else matters so finals can suck my cock. it turns out jason is a male manipulator? i might’ve mentioned this already because it happened a few days ago but i guess i’m never seeing him again. i’ve been so horny. i will think about men i’ve met once on their knees for me, i am no better than a man. gabrielle said that thinking about anyone in this way without their consent is a form of sexual assault but she said it in a way that makes me think she just thinks it’s weird and not necessarily like that. i mean she said it in a kind of jokey way so she wasn’t being serious. i just genuinely cannot process my feelings on a man unless i think of them in these ways.

december 6th; 2025

oh my god i just realized i didn’t write yesterday. i’m on the train to ryan’s party i’m so excited. i look so hot and i have tequila in my bag. i ran to catch the train to meet up with marzia i was so close to not making it, it only runs every twenty minutes on the weekends and it goes to hoboken too. i actually think i might not be too late to meet up with her, it’s hard to tell because i never take the train on weekends and i have to walk like 15-20 minutes to get there too. my asthma definitely flared up after running in the cold like that or maybe at all. i feel better after standing in the train though. i guess i should really be carrying an inhaler around. i don’t have my epipen i forgot it but maybe i wouldn’t have brought it if i remembered anyway. i ate before going so i just have to not eat anything maybe. yay yay i’m so excited yay! yesterday i made ryan’s gift and washed my hair. today i did my laundry and went to the food pantry in the morning. crazy how i could be so busy without any schoolwork involved. ryan has a disney channel theme for her party so i took a long time figuring out my outfit. i knew i could do it without buying anything but it was both harder than i thought and came out better than i thought.

december 4th; 2025

this morning i woke up and i tried to vent to my mom about the carl project. she immediately started acting like it’s my fault, i’m not even sure why she was awake before eight it’s not like she has a job or anything. she was saying that she was noticing a “pattern,” yeah asshole i notice one too, it’s almost like there might be other things that are going on in my life that could be affecting my full-time job. anyway, i hope jason and amy really still want to skip carl’s class and smoke weed because if i was on the fence before i’m definitely off of it now. then i’ll go home and lie to my mom about how carl’s class was and the world won’t end. like. i want to smoke weed now actually. i want to smoke weed now with benny and later with jason and amy. i can’t stand sandy anymore either. either you’re woke and mind your business when i’m out of school or you’re an asshole that doesn’t take being sick as a good enough reason. i mean, i’ve known she’s fake woke anyway, but genuinely what are you pissed at me for. jebediah is fake woke too but that’s different because he only shows his true colors when he talks about his wife. he’s our nicest professor he’s a bit of a ramblefest but he’s my favorite. i think there’s something wrong with my stomach bc i’m shitting at school right now and my asshole is burning. i’m on the train back home now and there’s a cute guy on the train. i like to look at people’s shoes on the train. carl was nice today. i told jason and amy that i think that’s because everyone else in class was struggling with trying to portray a “concept” in carl’s definition for the second project while i was struggling in the first project and now it is vice versa. the guy on the train is looking at me but now i’m scared i only realized because i was looking at him. tsk tsk tsk. i’ll just look at my phone and write from now on. there’s someone sitting next to me drafting some sort of diagram. i have absolutely no idea what it’s about even though they’re writing words. i’m less afraid of professors now i might’ve already said this. carl looks more and more pathetic and submissive everyday it’s a good thing the semester is ending soon. jason had a girl hit his face today like she rocked his shit. i think she broke his nose. i hope he’s okay. it’s so much easier for a man to look cute nowadays. relative to my mind palace i mean. i smell bad tonight i didn’t even do anything i just have discharge. like i showered last night it has not been twenty four hours.

december 3rd; 2025

i saw marzia and gabrielle do their dance performance today it’s always really good. i wasn’t able to get the little camera to work and it really stressed me out. carl is really in love with the idea and he doesn’t like anything so it really feels like it’s over if i can’t figure out the camera. i won’t be able to finish the letters either. my neck hurts and i feel hot. maybe i can try using one of the old gen iphones in my electronics drawer for the video for carl. club classics by charli is a horny track for me i don’t know why. not many songs are horny for me. i think i made a list about this once though. it’s really hot tonight. i’m going to sleep shirtless i wonder if benny goes to sleep shirtless, i really do. i feel thirsty my throat is dry. i feel like benny doesn’t act like he’s attracted to me but it’s hard to tell because he’s so extroverted.

december 2nd; 2025

i overslept and almost missed my psychiatrist appointment but my psychiatrist is really nice so he didn’t charge a late fee or a no show fee. this has happened before. i feel like shit. no one has responded to me, i don’t know if i’ll be able to get a paid internship. probably not. i keep messing up. i can do all the things that they would need me to do but none of that matters when no one wants me. there’s only two weeks of school left after this. i hate doing things other people tell me to do. i hate not knowing. i hate not being the best because if i’m not the best then there’s a chance that i’m not enough. i finished my thesis. i feel more able to talk back to people. i got my free glue gun. i should take a shower. i should clean up my stuff. i should wash the dishes. i should do my laundry. i don’t know what i’m going to wear for the rest of this week i haven’t done my laundry. i feel way worse now. i’m going to get so high. ally said she made a thousand bucks from doing a short form video for adobe with their apprentice program. she didn’t seem in a good mood yesterday but she lit up when i told her i liked it on both linkedin and instagram. i need to do the same thing i think. i was really hoping i wouldn’t have to give in to adobe like that. i need to send more cold emails. i kind of only have a few places left to apply to so after that i guess it’s going to be all cold emails or i look somewhere else. i hate myself why can everyone else do it and not me. i’m high now.

december 1st; 2025

my leg still hurts mildly. i want benny to kiss it better and massage it better. i slept an insane amount yesterday. i stayed up until 4am on saturday and i participated in disordered eating yesterday as in i nly really ate one full meal yesterday. i should reevaluate the consequences of not eating well. i cannot pinpoint how much i slept yesterday and at what times so i won’t know the consequences until they happen to me if they happen to me. i’m on the train to school now. i picked up my medicine on the way. i also have to get a lightbulb from home depot at the request of my mother. michael’s put a 5 dollar voucher in my mom’s rewards account and i know she isn’t going to use it so i went ahead and looked at what i can do with it. combined with their 40% code i can get a hot glue gun and refills for free which i’m really happy about. as someone that makes things all the time i should’ve gotten a hot glue gun years ago. the train car i’m in was completely bought out by this ai investment company which is really strange i think no one really has money right now. they didn’t layout their typography well either. their logo is cute. i need to do my laundry. mia says i can do better than benny and that i should go out to the club to meet people. i would do that but she says i need to pay cover and i can’t do that. i’m saying that but maybe i need to stop saving money like that. i’ve mentioned this before. but she’s right there’s so many cute boys out there i see them in my phone screen sometimes.

november 30th; 2025

i woke up with the nastiest charley’s horse. when i stood up i had to limp around. i’m smelling chocolate right now and i don’t know why. i drank an incredible amount last night, more than i have ever drank before, anywhere from 6-10 shots of vodka and 3 bottles of seagram’s, but i didn’t nearly get as drunk as i’ve ever been before. i was barely drunk and i’m not sure why. i did eat but i ate enough to satisfy, not even to a point where i was full. this morning i took the biggest shit i’ve taken in a while so maybe that has something to do with it. i want to tell my mom how much i drank to see her reaction but i risk an unskippable lecture cutscene on why it’s bad to drink so much and why i shouldn’t drink shots of anything in the first place which is a real opinion she has. maybe when we aren’t getting evicted we can splurge on mike’s hard and cheap wine but even the cheapest wine does not get you nearly the same mileage as a <15$ liter or 750ml of vodka or tequila. otherwise she doesn’t really have the right to say anything on that. my stomach hurts and my throat feels sick. i want benny to massage my charley’s horsed calf and to call me cute pet names. i didn’t do anything productive today. i feel pretty depressed about it. i did a lot of sleeping today. i should be productive at least every other day during a break like this to be able to have balance. i’m scared a lot about little and unusual and common things. i’m scared right now because i spent a lot of time on my thesis but i didn’t finish it and i’m not even sure if i’m going in the right direction. i have reason to believe that it is likely that i am going in the right direction but i want to be sure. it is due tuesday before 2pm. i haven’t applied to anymore internships although i’ve written cover letters for my next two applications. no one has replied to my emails or applications yet on internships after i started really getting into it after the design agency that seemed so interested in me said they won’t know if i have the internship until q1 of 2026. if i can’t get a paid internship then the only way out will crumble in front of me. although that might happen either way depending on whether we get evicted or not. i haven’t started fixing the brand guidelines for tomorrow, although that should take a smaller amount of time considering that i wasn’t given much specific feedback so i won’t be able to apply many changes at all. when i’m scared i cry. my chest hurts. when it comes to what i want in a partner, i know want these things:

  1. i want to cry in front of someone and know for sure that i’m not bothering them and that they want me to feel comfortable crying in front of them even if i do it a lot.
  2. i want them to be gentle and open-minded in observing and listening on what i find interesting and fun without needing to understand or find the same joy in all the same things.
  3. i want them to be as interested/as obsessed with me as i am with them more or less. not too much not too little.
  4. i want them to find me the most attractive in what i like to wear and do and say without yearning for things that i rarely or never participate in with the assumption in this context that i have tried it before. (i.e. shaving my body, wearing or treating my hair a certain way.
  5. i want them to be a switch. men are scary and traditional heterosexual sex is scary so if it’s a man then i want them to be sub leaning at first.
  6. i want them to feel comfortable making noise when they’re intimate with me.
  7. i want them to pay bills at the restaurants and activities. i would need this to happen to sustain a fun relationship where we do things together if i were to enter one right now. regardless i like saving money and if we usually split it gets awkward quickly.
  8. i want them to be good with words.
  9. i want them to be honest on their moral values before i waste time on someone who doesn’t think i deserve rights or doesn’t care.
  10. i want them to not aspire to have children or adopt younger children or infants. if it’s a man i want them to not aspire for legal marriage either.
  11. i don’t want them to be definitively introverted to the point i am relied on to be extroverted all of the time or to not enjoy partying and drinking and weed and walking.
this is a mix of things that should be expected in any partner but that i might need more support in and personal preferences that shouldn’t be expected or considered bare minimum from anyone for various reasons. i left out most bare minimum things, i left some in i couldn’t help myself. i hope leaving bare minimum standards out of a list like this will normalize and define bare minimum instead of the opposite. i know i need it in my own mind. i fantasize about a lover like this all the time, it would be so beautiful and wonderful.

november 29th; 2025

on saturday mornings we go to the food pantry because we’re poor and if we don’t find 8000 dollars to give the landlord before january then we will get evicted. i have a lot of spite and blame for my mom because it’s easy for me to think those things and i’m so sure if i was the one in control we wouldn’t have ended up here. i don’t like not knowing or not being in control. i’m in a lot of debt partly because i went to and am still in school despite everything and partly because my mom made me take out student loans to pay rent until they stopped approving them. my dad refused to cosign my student loans (for tuition) when they stopped approving my mom’s credit score, he said the interest is too high. i didn’t tell him why i took out so much money. i think he thinks that i’m using it to fuck around. he’s paying my tuition straight for this semester and my next and last semester which i didn’t think was an option. i had to do my fafsa late because my mom did her taxes wrong but my dad thinks i just forgot to do it. i hope i get a paid internship. if i get a paid internship then i can’t tell my dad because he’ll stop paying child support by contract. for a long time i will have to pretend i don’t have a job to my dad if i get one. they set the court date for the eviction hearing during january when i’ll be on a cruise with my father’s parents and my father’s sister and her family in the caribbean. so it isn’t an option to not pay the 8000 dollars ahead of time to dismiss the case. my mom is avoiding it. she wants to make decisions without calling a lawyer and she’s putting off asking for loans from her rich friends. she has too much pride so i will blame her for everything. no one has emailed me back. i can’t live in my father’s house. i’ll never be as close with him as i am with my mom. my body is allergic to that town too. i need to get an inhaler again. it’s beautiful though. there’s deer everywhere and all sorts of birds. they have a patio with a glass door. they have so many things. they buy things on amazon and tiktok shop and instagram all the time and throw things out all the time. my father doesn’t need that job, his girlfriend makes more than a million dollars a year she told me. they have so much space. when my grandparents came, my grandfather implied that they should’ve bought a bigger house but they already have too much space. it was so cold today waiting in line at the food pantry. because of the food pantry, i’ve tried food i’ve never had before. i’ve always wanted to try using too good to go but this is the same thing isn’t it. it’s always a surprise. last week we got butter and cheese. i don’t know how to respond when people ask me where i got the snack i’m trying to give them because i got it at the food pantry and didn’t realize it had peanuts or fish or whole soybean or large amounts of soymilk. i had edamame for the first time two weeks ago and i had to go to the hospital and that’s when i realized i was allergic to soy based on a spectrum. i want to make benny a charm bracelet but i think it might be too early for that. who knows maybe someone will convince me to do it, i don’t take too much convincing. maybe he’ll think i’m weird.

november 28th; 2025

it’s a beautiful morning, today i should do lots of work because i haven’t done any work for two days. i need to:

  1. write my thesis
  2. do stuff (?) for my brand guidelines
  3. apply to internships, as many as possible
that’s not too much for a whole weekend. i guess ideally i’d do even more, but i have a bad sense of how long things take for me to do. i had a dream about benny, which makes sense. he really liked me and i couldn’t believe it. i kind of feel like that now because i wasn’t expecting him to reply to my text to his number that i got from the class group chat. that doesn’t necessarily means he likes me though. he’s my friend, maybe he thinks it’s weird, but he trusts me enough to reply without questioning me. i’ve gotten high a lot this past week. thursday, saturday, sunday, monday, and wednesday i was high and then i was drunk yesterday on thursday. thursday i woke up and had a fight with my mom and felt like shit so i stayed home and got high. saturday i felt like shit again so i got high. sunday and monday i skipped school and got high to cope with my period cramps. also i had another fight with my mom that sunday. wednesday i felt stressed because i showed amy around my town but i don’t think she had too much fun. my sneakers betrayed me and gave me a blister on my heel that day. i traveled far with amy and my high school friends were going there later that night to dance but i couldn’t stay. my phone battery was dead and i wasn’t dressed cuntily enough. i saw so many people arriving there as i was leaving to do the same thing. i’ve never really been dancing with my friends outside of house parties so i felt a lot of fomo and i got high. i didn’t have class on wednesday. i’ve had opportunities to do that but a lot of the places charge cover and i can’t afford that. maybe i should just start spending money without thinking about it. i do all this effort to save money but it really doesn’t make a difference because it’s out of my control. i just think i have control because i’m a legal adult but really i’m still a kid.

intro/stream of consciousness
november 27th; 2025 (nsfw)

i want to kiss him on his neck. i haven’t had a crush in a while. what are you supposed to do again. benny is a big nerd. he can be pretty annoying. i wonder if he won’t be annoying if i make him my boyfriend. he’s annoying in a way that raises red flags. stop intellectualizing the brainrot. just be good and say you think the video is cute or funny. like me back and try to impress me. he’s a fan of ice spice. does that mean he likes eating pussy? it would be sacrilege in his religion if he didn’t. it would also be hypocrisy if he didn’t like bush, he’s skinny but grows hair on his arms and hands like a werewolf. all humans on earth are meant to be hairy. he never wears t shirts. i can barely imagine him without a shirt i really can’t. in his defense it’s always cold here in school. i don’t think mat does either to be honest but i don’t pay much attention to him. i think i might be racist. how do i become unracist. i’m not white. benny doesn’t help because that’s the most aryan person i’ve seen in my life. his family must look the same. i’ve never had a real crush on a black person. wait that’s a lie. but still the ratio is so off. and like i’ve had serious crushes on literally everyone else in the main four. main four races is crazy. i’m racist how do i fix that where’s the class i take. benny sort of freaks me out because he has blue eyes. he looks so gentle when he’s sleeping. creeper alert! we should cuddle sometime so i can watch him sleep consensually. i’m drunk. when i’m on drugs all i want to do is kiss cute boys. i’ve been so horny lately. fuck school i want to do what i want. i wanna run my neocities site and draw ponies and have men do my bidding. i need to care less about what people think. benny is attractive to me for these reasons:

  1. nerd
  2. funny
  3. nice generally
  4. extroverted will say hi to you first
  5. fluffy hair good haircut i tell him his hair looks nice almost every time i see him now
  6. glasses
  7. likes green
  8. wears green
  9. good fashion
  10. good voice
  11. good jawline
in this order specifically. i like white men too much. i like kit connor also. i write kit connor x y/n fanfiction with my own name just for myself. it fascinates me how long i can spend deciding what exactly the perfect scenarios would be when i’m writing the fanfiction. it’s all for me. it means i don’t know what i want. i also want it to be realistic because if kit connor suddenly appeared in my bedroom it would be awkward and overly sexual too quickly. it wouldn’t be perfect if it was unrealistic. i know because i tried writing that. i think kit connor looks the hottest when he has shorter hair between buzzcut to his current length with a bit of stubble and a hairy chest and hairy arms and happy trail and. everything. i’ve never had sex before. i think about benny eating me out all the time. his hair would be fun to play with. does he keep the glasses on? how blind is he. i need to hear him make noises in a sexual way. i am no better than a man. i think if i got with benny it would be really toxic and it would be his fault and i don’t really trust myself to not gaslight myself into thinking i’m a part of the problem. wow what a really specific scenario. i would peg benny. i would also peg kit connor. i would also peg carl. i would only peg carl. he deserves only punishment without romance. what a pathetic man. congratulations to his fiance. i hope his dog is doing well. i used to like this guy in my embroidery class but he is growing his hair out i think and it’s in an awkward in between phase that looks like it’s not on purpose. he’s white too they’re all white. i had recurring dreams where zachary was my best friend on a floating hotel when i was thirteen but i’ve just met him for the first time this semester. i think he drives a car. he’s in photography. he keeps his car keys and a carabiner and whatever etcetera bits clipped to his jeans. carl keeps a carabiner clipped to his jeans. when did straight men decide to do this. did they have a meeting. carabiners are lesbian. or sapphic. i got a yoyo (for free). i need to peg my crush from when i was in high school. he looks even better now. it’s like he evolved with my taste in men. tsk tsk tsk. i tried cold dming antonio in instagram dms and he did not reply left me on seen. antonio kiss me. i used to only like skinny hairless guys. after that i only liked women. after that i liked skinny hairless guys with a bit of muscle as well. at some point after that i started crushing on kit connor by watching heartstopper and he’s buff so i was like i like buff guys now too. then i realized when he isn’t pretending to be sixteen years old for his job he grows out his chest hair and that’s really hot. then he got a bit of a beard and i was like actually i like that too which was a big milestone for me. then he buzzed off his hair and he looked like an egg in some photos and hot in some others. now he has a full mustache and i don’t know if i can overcome this. children are dying in gaza. kit connor can have a mustache. i’m chewing gum right now. i texted benny and he actually responded and it was rather enthusiastic if i do say so myself. ice spice is half dominican and he likes ice spice and i’m dominican does this mean he will like me. i need to flirt with benny. right now. i want to get high with benny and cuddle him. i want to know his lore. i want to see him shirtless. i wonder if he would be weird about sex. enough pressure. i want to live in the world in my head. what is right and what is wrong or should i just care more about what i feel instead of whether what i’m doing is right or wrong. i need benny under the luminance of my fairy lights. i need to pet his hair and i want him to look at me sweet.